It's you that i want...

Have you heard a guy or girl tell you " i can only be myself when I'm with you"???
I have...
This guy who would just show all his bad side's when he is with me...
He may share his stories with his friends..
But definitely not his bad sight...
When a guy or a girl is comfortable in sharing that..
Then that probably means he loves you.. and is willing to share his life with you
But if he doesn't.. and still feel not comfortable in being himself..
Then we gotta just walk off and say.."maybe you are just not mine" and move on...

The Pepsi HEAD

It must have hurt so much if that guy did it REAL in real life...

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Seen jelly fish before???
This close??
NO???
I touched it ler...
Yeah, some said they will give you this "electric shock"..
Some said hand will be itchy after touching....
But we were so lucky that it did not hurt us...
LUCKY us....

Love

WHY?

Some who reads my blog might just ask WHY from NUFF to ADVERTLETS??
Erm... since my other two blog is using NUFF, i was just thinking about trying out the other 1 here..
So that it... neway do read my blogs more often.. thank you...

Words

The most selfish one letter word..."I“ ...

Avoid it.
The most satisfying two-letter word... "WE“...
Use it.
The most poisonous three-letter word... "EGO" ...
Kill it.
The most used four-letter word... "LOVE“...
Value it.
The most pleasing five-letter word... "SMILE“...
Keep it.
The fastest spreading six-letter word... "RUMOUR“...
Ignore it.
The hard working seven-letter... "SUCCESS“...
Achieve it.
The most enviable eight-letter word...JEALOUSY“...
Distance it.
The most powerful nine-letter word.... “KNOWLEDGE“...
Acquire it.
The most Divine ten-letter word... “FRIENDSHIP“...
Maintain it.

 

** e-mail

Piano.. touching story...

Something worth reading...

Always love and respect those around us when they are still AROUND!!...


At the prodding of my friends, I am writing this story. My name is Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music teacher from Des Moines,Iowa. I've always supplemented my income by teaching piano lessons-something I've done for over 30 years.

Over the years I found that children have many levels of musical ability. I've never had the pleasure of having a prodigy though I have taught some talented students. However I've also had my share of what I call "musically challenged" pupils. One such student was Robby. Robby was 11 years old when his mother (a single mom) dropped him off for his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys!) begin at an earlier age, which I explained to Robby. But Robby said that it had always been his mother's dream to hear him play the piano.

So I took him as a student. Well, Robby began with his piano lessons and from the beginning I thought it was a hopeless endeavour. As much as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone and basic rhythm needed to excel. But he dutifully reviewed his scales and some elementary pieces that I require all my students to learn.

Over the months he tried and tried while I listened and cringed and tried to encourage him. At the end of each weekly lesson he'd always say, "My mom's going to hear me play some day." But it seemed hope-less. He just did not have any inborn ability. I only knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car to pick him up. She always waved and smiled but never stopped in.

 Then one day Robby stopped coming to our lessons. I thought about calling him but assumed because of his lack of ability, that he had decided to pursue some-thing else. I also was glad that he stopped coming. He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!

Several weeks later I mailed to the student's homes a flyer on the upcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a flyer) asked me if he could be in the recital. I told him that the recital was for current pupils and because he had dropped out he really did not qualify. He said that his mother had been sick and unable to take him to piano lessons but he was still practicing.

"Miss Hondorf .... I've just got to play!" he insisted. I don't know what led me to allow him to play in the recital. Maybe it was his persistence or maybe it was something inside of me saying that it would be all right.

The night for the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed with parents, friends and relatives. I put Robby up last in the program before I was to come up and thank all the students and play a finishing piece. I thought that any damage he would do would come at the end of the program and I could always salvage his poor performance through my "curtain closer."

Well the recital went off without a hitch. The students had been practicing and it showed.Then Robby came up on stage. His clothes were wrinkled and his hair looked like he'd run an egg-beater through it. "Why didn't he dress up like the other students?" I thought. "Why didn't his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special night?"

Robby pulled out the piano bench and he began. I was surprised when he announced that he had chosen Mozart's Concerto #21 in C Major. I was not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers were light on the keys, they even danced nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to fortissimo.. .from allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart demands were magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so well be people of his age.

After six and a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo and everyone was on their feet in wild applause. Overcome and in tears I ran up on stage and put my arms around Robby in joy.

"I've never heard you play like that Robby! How'd you do it? "
Through the microphone, Robby explained: "Well Miss Hondorf . . . remember I told you my mom was sick?
Well, actually she had cancer and passed away this morning. And well she was born deaf so tonight was the first time she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it special."

There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening. As the people from Social Services led Robby from the stage to be placed into foster care,  I noticed that even their eyes were red and puffy and I thought to myself how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil.

No, I've never had a prodigy but that night I became a prodigyof Robby's. He was the teacher and I was the pupil. For it is he who taught me the meaning of perseverance and love and believing in yourself and maybe even taking a chance in someone and you don't know why.

Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995.

** taken from an e-mail

Everything will be for good cause

Why do you worry without cause?

Whom do you fear without reason?

Who can kill you?

The soul is neither born, nor does it die.

Whatever happened,

happened for the good.

Whatever is happening,

is happening for the good.

Whatever will happen,

will also happen for the good only.

Do we pray to the same GOD or what?

Many religion in a country / world.
Many people think that Chinese, Malay, Indian, Sikh, Christian pray to different god,(please forgive if i did not mention other religions)
BUT are we really praying to MANY god or ONE god?

From what all the SAINTs (all race/religion) whom have sat down and meditate,
they say they only see 1 god.
You can be and INDIAN and pray to many god which we see in the temple,
but there is 1 god up there which we cannot see.

The chinese pray to the gods in the tokong, aren't they almost the same to the INDIAN gods?
Kuan Yin is know as Mariamman
Shu Wu Kong is know as Hanuman.
and many other god which is almost the same.

Even all this god, pray to the 1 god up there.
which WE, do not see, do not know.

So what if you are an INDIAN?
So what if you are a CHINESE?
So what if you are a CHRISTIAN?
So what if you are a MALAYS?

What is so great?
You are only great when i look at you.
You physical. The color of you body.
The race/religion which is stated on your birth certificate.
You know who you are, because of what your parents told you.

Just imagine being borned in a Chinese family but your color is dark.
When you walk in the street, people will claim you as INDIAN.
So tell me- NO, tell YOURSELF, are we suppose to differentiate ourself just because of skin color?
birth certificate?

Think for yourself, being close minded is so sad. you don't get to do this, you don't get to do that.
WHAT IS LIFE?
LEARN to respect other.
what is wrong in respecting?

Do you die just because you respect?

A person with a big HEART, is like having big WEALTH...
We are all god's children.. do not belittle the other person

GOD IS ONE AND ONE IS GOD

10 Commandments

The 10 commandments come from Exodus 20:1-17. Here is the verse:

1. You shall have no other gods before me.
    
2. You shall not make for yourself any carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate me, but showing mercy to thousands, to those who love ME
   
   and keep My commandments.
    
3. You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.
    
4. Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work: you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your manservant, nor your maidservant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.
    
5. Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.
    
6. You shall not murder.
    
7. You shall not commit adultery.
    
8. You shall not steal.
    
9. You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
    
10. You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.

words

May the truth of these words awaken transcendent wisdom and great heart of compassion in all beings.

May they bring blessings to all.

*Buddha*

Drunkenness

Drunkenness expels reasons,
Drowns memory,
Defaces the brain,
Diminishes strength,
Inflames the blood,
Causes incureable external and internal wounds,
Is a witch to the body,
A devil to the mind,
A thief to the purse,
The beggar's curse,
The wife's woe,
The children's sorrow,
The picture of a beast,
Ans self murder,
Who drinks to other's heath,
And robs himself of his own. - Buddha


Its final result can never be anything but utter physical and moral degradation..

IF

"Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges whatever that is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit." - Someone said

Trust

Trust is an emotional act.
Emotionally, it is where you expose your weakness to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness.
We tend to trust the person when we experience the trustworthiness of the other person.. and also because they have faith in human nature.

"I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't trust you"- Friedrich Nietzche

"Trust is like a vase. Once it's broken, though you can fix it, the vase will never look the same again" 


"I know God will not give me anything which O can't handle. I just wish HE didn't trust me much"- Mother Teresa of Calcutta

Trust is something we build so that people trust us.
Never break a trust, because it will be gone.

Control Your Mind

Man's mind influences his body.
If allowed to function and entertain unwanted thoughts, it can cause disasters.

When the mind concentrates on right thoughts, it can also cure a sick body.

A mind with pure and wholesome thoughts does lead to healthy and relaxing life.
"No enemy can harm one so much as one's own thoughts of craving, thoughts of hate, thoughts of jealousy and so on"- Buddha

A man who does not know how to adjust his mind according to circumstances would be like a corpse in a coffin.
Turn you mind to yourself and try to find pleasure within yourself.
You will always find an infinite source of pleasure ready for your enjoyment.

Calmness is not WEAKNESS.
A calm attitude at all times shows a man of culture.

It is not hard for a man to be calm when things are favourable, but to be composed when things are wrong is hard indeed.

Truth

Yes..!!

Knowing the truth of certain stuffs may HURT.

But being able to accept the truth is a wise man.

Everyone thinks that being truthful is very important in a relationship or friendship.

But they fail to understand that some truth is better kept as a secret than to disclose it for further arguement.

There are both good consequences and bad consequences with telling the truth.

Joke : a salesperson came to the house and was ringing the bell again and again, the small boy answered and said "my mum is in the toilet SHITTING"..  the mother came running quickly and asked "who was that?", "a guy, asking for you but i said you were in the toilet shitting, so he left" the boy said.. 

Now, the question is, we always teach children to tell the truth, but ain't something supposed to be left unsaid?? (probably a lie would have been better, or maybe somethings we should just not say)

Happiness and Materialism

"Try doing something for someone"- The best cure for fear

"You cannot have two opposing sets of thoughts in your mind at one and the same time"

"You can deceive some of the people all the time and all the people some of the time, but you cannot deceive all of the people all of the time" - Abrahan Lincoln

Many people believe they can slove all their problem if only they have money..
But they fail to realise that money cannot solve all their problems..

Many people never learn this and all they do their whole life is to collect money and "machines/ gadgets"..
When they have all this, they still say "not enough", "i want more", " i want this, i wan that"..
The more they want in life, the more they are not happy and content...


"Say no to this is YOURS and that is MINE,
Just say, this came to ME and that came to YOU,
So we may not regret the fading shine,
Of all the glorious thing that ceased to be" - Dr.K.Sri Dham

Wealth is used to help others..
Use what you need...
Don't keep collecting, because you will be worried about when and who is going to ROB or KIDNAP you because of your wealth..

"Your property will remail when you die. Your friends and relatives will follow you up to your grave. But only the good and bad actions you have done during you lifetime will follow you beyond the grave"

Many things that we expect will give us happiness and contentment wil eventually disappoint us when we get them.
It is so good to have a lot of money, but when they bring us worry (like said above) we tend to get stressed and may lead to foolishness.

"Your wealth can decorate you house but not YOU,
Only your own virtue can decorate YOU.
Your dress can decorate your body but not YOU,
Only your good conduct can decorate YOU."

"Blesses are they who earn their living wihtout harming others. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself" - Buddha

You may not change the world, but you are able to change your heart to find happiness.

"If we want to find happiness, let us stop thinking about gratitude and ingratitude and give for the inner joy of giving. Ingratitude is natural like weeds. Gratitude is like a rose, it has to be fed, watered and cultivated and loved and protected" - Dale Carnegie

Time will heal our wound

Trouble/ problem/ worries/ sadness passes..
What has caused you to burst into tears today will soon be forgotten.
You might remember that you cried and forget why you cried for..

As we grow up, we may find it surprising on how we lie awake at night just to think about what has upset us during the day and let the same thought run through our mind on how to get our back toward the other person who harmed us.

and wonder later on WHAT REALLY GOT US SO ANGRY ABOUT..
don't be surprised, by the time we realise it, we will be thinking on WHAT A WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY to get angry when we can actually be happy..

All troubles, however hard it may be, the time will heal our wounds..
There must be something we can do to prevent ourselves from being hurt in the first place...
Why should we allow other people and trouble to drain our energy??
and eventually make us unhappy??

The problem is, THEY do not make us unhappy, it is WE who make ourselves unhappy.

We never blame our own mistakes...
We always feel it is more easier to blame others..

So, doing this means trouble.. unhappiness..
We must be calm..
We must resolve our own problem
We must not blame others.. (take it like a man)

Be prepared to solve all difficulties...
and TIME WILL HEAL OUR WOUNDS...!!!

Worry and Fear

Are you worried?
Are you scared?
Are you miserable?

Why?

Worried, scared and miserable are all twins...
So, if you feel worried, you are scared and miserable,
if you are scared, you are worried and miserable,
if you are miserable, you are worried and scared..

We must overcome them
HOW?

Our worries are created by our own mind.
If only we can see things in a bigger picture,
bigger perspective, nothing in live is permanent..
and that it is our own mind that is imagining all the unwanted wild worries, sacredness, miserableness..

Learn how to control your mind and heart..

Whenever you are worried, don't sulk to any tom, dick and harry.. NEVER
Only sulk to people who can help you..
It is not hard to keep a smiling face.. IF ONLY YOU TRY....

"Try doing something for someone" - it can be the best cure for fear...

"Worry dries up the blood sooner than age"

If you can learn how to enjoy others happiness, you will be in good moods.
This is because, you don't let your mind to keep thinking about your WORRIES and FEAR...

Do not worry

Why worry about tomorrow when you never know what will happen?
Why worry about yesterday when you know nothing can change it?
Why worry about now when all you gotta do is LIVE?

So tell me why WORRY?

There is no secret to happiness and successful living..
So why think about it?

Many worry thinking of their future..
Some worry about what they did yesterday..
but is there anyone who think about what to do now?

Some YES, some NO..
But who cares about YES and NO??

All we gotta learn in this world is to ADJUST according to circumstances of our daily life..

Throw away about what is going to happen tomorrow..
Throw away about what happened yesterday..
Think about what you going to do now to make sure you have a happy life.

Yesterday is Past, Tomorrow is Future.. TODAY IS PRESENT..
Enjoy today, forget about yesterday, live for tomorrow..
Be happy that you can always see sunshine tomorrow...

Wise man

"Wheresoever fear arises, it arises in the FOOL, not in the wise man,"- words by Buddha

Life is something we create.
before dying, in our daily life,
we always pray that we BORN in a better family in our next life.

But is it for us to choose?
YES..!!
we can actually choose which family we want to be born in our next life
if we do GOOD.
don't do bad if you wanna be born in a good family..
when we say good
we refer to things like the 10 commandment in the BIBLE

So tell me, being normal human, can you follow the 10 commandment?
YES?? NO??

I would say, never say YES, neither say NO because there will be moment where you cannot decide at THAT VERY MOMENT are you doing bad or not.
all we do is what YOUR heart says..
"hey, this is correct, go ahead"

when you start doubting your actions, then you gotta be careful, because it might not be correct.

So think twice when you wanna make a decision...
and remember never say this " because of him/her, i did this"
because it will show how stupid you are as to YOU GOT NO BRAINS....