Trust

Trust is an emotional act.
Emotionally, it is where you expose your weakness to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness.
We tend to trust the person when we experience the trustworthiness of the other person.. and also because they have faith in human nature.

"I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't trust you"- Friedrich Nietzche

"Trust is like a vase. Once it's broken, though you can fix it, the vase will never look the same again" 


"I know God will not give me anything which O can't handle. I just wish HE didn't trust me much"- Mother Teresa of Calcutta

Trust is something we build so that people trust us.
Never break a trust, because it will be gone.

Control Your Mind

Man's mind influences his body.
If allowed to function and entertain unwanted thoughts, it can cause disasters.

When the mind concentrates on right thoughts, it can also cure a sick body.

A mind with pure and wholesome thoughts does lead to healthy and relaxing life.
"No enemy can harm one so much as one's own thoughts of craving, thoughts of hate, thoughts of jealousy and so on"- Buddha

A man who does not know how to adjust his mind according to circumstances would be like a corpse in a coffin.
Turn you mind to yourself and try to find pleasure within yourself.
You will always find an infinite source of pleasure ready for your enjoyment.

Calmness is not WEAKNESS.
A calm attitude at all times shows a man of culture.

It is not hard for a man to be calm when things are favourable, but to be composed when things are wrong is hard indeed.

Happiness and Materialism

"Try doing something for someone"- The best cure for fear

"You cannot have two opposing sets of thoughts in your mind at one and the same time"

"You can deceive some of the people all the time and all the people some of the time, but you cannot deceive all of the people all of the time" - Abrahan Lincoln

Many people believe they can slove all their problem if only they have money..
But they fail to realise that money cannot solve all their problems..

Many people never learn this and all they do their whole life is to collect money and "machines/ gadgets"..
When they have all this, they still say "not enough", "i want more", " i want this, i wan that"..
The more they want in life, the more they are not happy and content...


"Say no to this is YOURS and that is MINE,
Just say, this came to ME and that came to YOU,
So we may not regret the fading shine,
Of all the glorious thing that ceased to be" - Dr.K.Sri Dham

Wealth is used to help others..
Use what you need...
Don't keep collecting, because you will be worried about when and who is going to ROB or KIDNAP you because of your wealth..

"Your property will remail when you die. Your friends and relatives will follow you up to your grave. But only the good and bad actions you have done during you lifetime will follow you beyond the grave"

Many things that we expect will give us happiness and contentment wil eventually disappoint us when we get them.
It is so good to have a lot of money, but when they bring us worry (like said above) we tend to get stressed and may lead to foolishness.

"Your wealth can decorate you house but not YOU,
Only your own virtue can decorate YOU.
Your dress can decorate your body but not YOU,
Only your good conduct can decorate YOU."

"Blesses are they who earn their living wihtout harming others. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself" - Buddha

You may not change the world, but you are able to change your heart to find happiness.

"If we want to find happiness, let us stop thinking about gratitude and ingratitude and give for the inner joy of giving. Ingratitude is natural like weeds. Gratitude is like a rose, it has to be fed, watered and cultivated and loved and protected" - Dale Carnegie

Time will heal our wound

Trouble/ problem/ worries/ sadness passes..
What has caused you to burst into tears today will soon be forgotten.
You might remember that you cried and forget why you cried for..

As we grow up, we may find it surprising on how we lie awake at night just to think about what has upset us during the day and let the same thought run through our mind on how to get our back toward the other person who harmed us.

and wonder later on WHAT REALLY GOT US SO ANGRY ABOUT..
don't be surprised, by the time we realise it, we will be thinking on WHAT A WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY to get angry when we can actually be happy..

All troubles, however hard it may be, the time will heal our wounds..
There must be something we can do to prevent ourselves from being hurt in the first place...
Why should we allow other people and trouble to drain our energy??
and eventually make us unhappy??

The problem is, THEY do not make us unhappy, it is WE who make ourselves unhappy.

We never blame our own mistakes...
We always feel it is more easier to blame others..

So, doing this means trouble.. unhappiness..
We must be calm..
We must resolve our own problem
We must not blame others.. (take it like a man)

Be prepared to solve all difficulties...
and TIME WILL HEAL OUR WOUNDS...!!!

Worry and Fear

Are you worried?
Are you scared?
Are you miserable?

Why?

Worried, scared and miserable are all twins...
So, if you feel worried, you are scared and miserable,
if you are scared, you are worried and miserable,
if you are miserable, you are worried and scared..

We must overcome them
HOW?

Our worries are created by our own mind.
If only we can see things in a bigger picture,
bigger perspective, nothing in live is permanent..
and that it is our own mind that is imagining all the unwanted wild worries, sacredness, miserableness..

Learn how to control your mind and heart..

Whenever you are worried, don't sulk to any tom, dick and harry.. NEVER
Only sulk to people who can help you..
It is not hard to keep a smiling face.. IF ONLY YOU TRY....

"Try doing something for someone" - it can be the best cure for fear...

"Worry dries up the blood sooner than age"

If you can learn how to enjoy others happiness, you will be in good moods.
This is because, you don't let your mind to keep thinking about your WORRIES and FEAR...

Do not worry

Why worry about tomorrow when you never know what will happen?
Why worry about yesterday when you know nothing can change it?
Why worry about now when all you gotta do is LIVE?

So tell me why WORRY?

There is no secret to happiness and successful living..
So why think about it?

Many worry thinking of their future..
Some worry about what they did yesterday..
but is there anyone who think about what to do now?

Some YES, some NO..
But who cares about YES and NO??

All we gotta learn in this world is to ADJUST according to circumstances of our daily life..

Throw away about what is going to happen tomorrow..
Throw away about what happened yesterday..
Think about what you going to do now to make sure you have a happy life.

Yesterday is Past, Tomorrow is Future.. TODAY IS PRESENT..
Enjoy today, forget about yesterday, live for tomorrow..
Be happy that you can always see sunshine tomorrow...

Wise man

"Wheresoever fear arises, it arises in the FOOL, not in the wise man,"- words by Buddha

Life is something we create.
before dying, in our daily life,
we always pray that we BORN in a better family in our next life.

But is it for us to choose?
YES..!!
we can actually choose which family we want to be born in our next life
if we do GOOD.
don't do bad if you wanna be born in a good family..
when we say good
we refer to things like the 10 commandment in the BIBLE

So tell me, being normal human, can you follow the 10 commandment?
YES?? NO??

I would say, never say YES, neither say NO because there will be moment where you cannot decide at THAT VERY MOMENT are you doing bad or not.
all we do is what YOUR heart says..
"hey, this is correct, go ahead"

when you start doubting your actions, then you gotta be careful, because it might not be correct.

So think twice when you wanna make a decision...
and remember never say this " because of him/her, i did this"
because it will show how stupid you are as to YOU GOT NO BRAINS....